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#1 sgbernard

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Posted 29 August 2009 - 12:15 PM

i am helping a friend to ask, anyway, how to ease the pain after anal sex, is there any thing that he could do?

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Posted 29 August 2009 - 05:24 PM

pxxn stars' secret, apply ice pack after you have been to a volcano top.
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Posted 01 September 2009 - 01:15 PM

Try Preparation-H.
You can get this at the pharmacy -no need for a prescription.
Its actually for piles (haemorrhoids), but it works!

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Posted 01 September 2009 - 01:18 PM

pxxn stars' secret, apply ice pack after you have been to a volcano top.


really? i think there will be pain of a different kind, like frostbite!

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Posted 04 September 2009 - 03:29 PM

If it hurts, are you doing it correctly???

If you are doing it correctly, there should be little to no pain. But I have to admit, sometimes the "magic" doesn't happen and it hurts.

Try a different position and/or more lubrication. Also, find a spot your bottom gets turned on - licking of nipples or neck, stroking the dick, etc. For the bottom, I suggest pushing out (like taking a shit) while at the same time, the top slowly/gently pushes in. This takes practice - you need to sense at what stage your btm is at before you are able to insert the whole thing in. Then, let the btm get accustomed to the shaft inside him before you begin thrusting.

Like anything, you need to practice to be good... hehehe

#6 GachiMuchi

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Posted 06 September 2009 - 11:55 AM

i am helping a friend to ask, anyway, how to ease the pain after anal sex, is there any thing that he could do?

I don't think there are any magic formula to ease the pain after anal sex.

Basically there are 2 area of pain.
1. Pain around ass entrance
2. Pain inside the ass

1. If your friend's ass around the entrance is painful, it would have been the result of tearing of the skin. Just ask him to apply antiseptic cream to prevent infection and allow the skin area to heal before he have any further anal sex.

2. If the pain occurs from the inside. It could be the result of bruising of the internal walls or organs. The bruising will subside after a few days. If the pain is unbearable, just take some pain killers. Do consult a doctor if the pain persist.

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Posted 20 September 2009 - 11:53 PM

GachiMuchi's reply is logical and spot-on.

I think we would need more info though before we could give a really specific answer.

1. Is it pain immediately after sex or does it come on later?

2. How long has the pain persisted after the sex?

3. Does it happen every time after being screwed, or is this a single isolated occurence?

4. Has there been any bleeding, if so only while shitting or even at other times?

5. Is there any discharge or pus coming from the anus?

If it is pain only while being screwed this suggests a) he may be tense and not relaxed enough and this also tightens his anal sphincter.
b) is he using enough lube? c) the obvious one...his partner's dick is disproportionally big for his asshole. d) he needs more experience.

If it is pain that comes on after the sex, and gets worse over the next day or two and it has never happened before then it's possible the skin or mucous membrane at the edge of the anus has been torn. Bleeding at the time of being screwed would support this. If so, no more sex for a couple of weeks, careful washing of the asshole several times a day, and consult a doctor if the pain persists for more than a few days.

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Posted 22 November 2009 - 05:43 AM

wow

how big was his top's tool until so pain...

sometimes when fxxking a btm guy its very hard not to get carried aways especially after they keep moaning and begging for, "...more more more harder harder harder ah yes yes like that... aaaaahhhh"

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Posted 26 November 2009 - 12:26 AM

This is so making anal sex scary but definately useful info.
Practise O.o lol guess it works for everything.

Many thks

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Posted 28 February 2010 - 06:23 PM

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Posted 01 March 2010 - 07:36 PM

constipation liao.....

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Posted 09 March 2010 - 12:15 AM

a nice fingering foreplay session by my top prior would usually prevent pain DURING sex. And a good lube.

however, for pain AFTER sex, i seldom get that because it usually feels good during the session and thus i don't feel pain after.

unless it feels weird during initial entry, then it'd probably be painful after. which brings me back to my first point.

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Posted 10 May 2010 - 09:24 PM

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#14 SlimBi

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Posted 11 May 2010 - 07:09 AM

I usually get my ass prepared with fingering and wearing a butt plug for a few hours before an expected entry. There was once before meeting my then bf I wore a butt plug for a whole day since his dick is pretty large.A slight pai is always expected..but thepost screwing is more of somekind of sensation.

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Posted 16 February 2012 - 09:43 PM

Try Preparation-H.
You can get this at the pharmacy -no need for a prescription.
Its actually for piles (haemorrhoids), but it works!


I gotta agree, for slight pain, you can get creams that work for hemorrhoids at the pharmacies. But if pain persists or worsen, do see a doctor.

#16 mango_juice

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Posted 17 February 2012 - 12:00 AM

recently got myself a butt plug... wanna ask those who use butt plug for long period eg 1 hr to prepare... does it reduce the pleasure sensation when the actual penetration? since u already used to having things inside?

#17 Johnsontan

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Posted 04 December 2013 - 12:51 AM

I had the sex of my life the other day with someone I really like. I would very much like to do it with him again but after that time. My ass really hurts. We found a bit of blood on bed sheet and he was so sweet to try to hide it from me and not let me worry.

How odd I get my ass to heal faster so that I can get humped by him again ...


Many thanks in advance

#18 onlylonely

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Posted 04 December 2013 - 06:56 AM

He was too rough or he did not apply enough lube.

Just wait for 2 weeks to let the wound heal completely. Everyone recover at a different pace

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Posted 05 December 2013 - 05:01 PM

Agreed. If the top is gentle, it shld be a pleasure to the bottom.



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Posted 05 December 2013 - 06:42 PM

It didnt hurt for me after the deed. I suppose the too must be gentle and make sure the sex is not too rough.

Edited by member_757, 05 December 2013 - 06:42 PM.


#21 onlylonely

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Posted 22 December 2013 - 09:32 AM

It didnt hurt for me after the deed. I suppose the too must be gentle and make sure the sex is not too rough.


Your bf is skilful

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Posted 06 January 2014 - 01:42 PM

Lol if not enough lube isn't it even more painful for the top? Dick more sensitive den ass leh

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Posted 07 January 2014 - 11:31 AM

My recommendation would be to have a lot of kissing and play (sucking, masturbating, rimming, etc) so that you are really really excited and can't wait to have your partner up your ass.

If you are really excited, your anus will dilate.

Then, use plenty of lube and you should be ok

 

Of course wait for full recovery before your next session and do use condom

Have fun!



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Posted 07 January 2014 - 12:45 PM

I always make sure my btm feels fully relaxed until when i insert,all he could feel was plesure.

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Posted 07 January 2014 - 11:28 PM

Lol if not enough lube isn't it even more painful for the top? Dick more sensitive den ass leh


Wah say.... Sexpert speaking from sexperience... Must pay attention !!!

#26 onlylonely

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Posted 18 January 2014 - 09:21 AM

I tried fucking my bf almost everyday for 6 days, and he did not complain his ass is pain or sore

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Posted 18 January 2014 - 08:51 PM

I tried fucking my bf almost everyday for 6 days, and he did not complain his ass is pain or sore

 

wah.. you should ask him lei.  :mellow:  :mellow:  :mellow:



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Posted 18 January 2014 - 10:10 PM

wah.. you should ask him lei. :mellow: :mellow: :mellow:


he didn't complain too. And he fucked me after I fucked him. It wasn't pain at all!

#29 zzzzzzzz

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Posted 19 January 2014 - 02:17 PM

Lots of good quality lube and foreplay help, and some fingering. If you are inexperience, or the top has super big dick, try to sit on it and adjust according.

Take a warm shower may help to relax.

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Posted 19 January 2014 - 02:29 PM

he didn't complain too. And he fucked me after I fucked him. It wasn't pain at all!

 

lololol. you must have used alot of lubes.  ^_^  ^_^  ^_^



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Posted 20 January 2014 - 06:02 PM

lololol. you must have used alot of lubes. ^_^ ^_^ ^_^


Or they have small dicks that's why :P

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Posted 20 January 2014 - 09:54 PM

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