Top Trying To Be Bottom Or Had Became A Bottom + Why Top Becomes Bottom (Compiled)

[Guest topgun]

i m top all these while, (ok, been bottom for few time damn long ago)

recently i found my mind keep imagine myself being slut bottom partly because i like to watch pxxn especially those muscular hunky man get fxxked without mercy.

being muscular guy myself, such scenes make me link to the picture that i m bottom as well. sometimes my imagination running wild that i picture myself being fxxked n humiliated by group of uncle with big cock. it dread me quite a while. i afraid one day i will become a slut btm that beg for cocks.

just wondering is it normal for top to have such imagination?

is it because i watching too much pxxn n cant really differentiate between virtual and reality?

i admit that i like only muscular guys but lately i having abit erectile problem(unless i get sucked)even meet someone i like and feel so anxious about my performance.

i think i suffering from my wild imagination which in turn, cause me performance anxiety or simply because i just too tired mentally.

also wondering is it because of my previous experience that i have been rejected by guys i like in sauna which make me so anxious whenever i met someone i like in suana, afraid being rejected again.

recall the time where i can fxxk like horse non stop and cum few times in a nite......

any solution for my problem? thanks

[p-2122]

No idea, perhaps u shld try once for awhile, or shld I? I'm not the muscled kind but I top most of the time. I even top every time I had a massage. Shld I get a top to bottom me?

[Guest topgun]

No idea, perhaps u shld try once for awhile, or shld I? I'm not the muscled kind but I top most of the time. I even top every time I had a massage. Shld I get a top to bottom me?

as i said i been bottom before n i dun really like it.....but wat portrayed in pxxn looks enjoy....i dun noe.

dun tell me u never been bottom?

did u ever imagined being bottom?

[Guest Guest]

Muscleguy also get rejected in sauna???

Come to me, I will cling on you like a koala bear. :thumb:

[Guest Ironrod]

I think you think too much, just do whatever u like and enjoy [in sexual terms] why stress to perform when u aren't even getting paid.

There are a lot of muscle god btms [example Francois Sagat] but getting gang-bang does not mean you are a whore. Who told u that btw?

Perhaps normal sex bores you, that's why your body no longer interested in regular fxxking.

fxxk with ppl whom u are comfortable with, do what makes you happy.

If a guy fxxks you and doesn't know how to respect you [unless it's S&M] you can give him a man punch.

If you are a man, you are a man - no need ppl to tell you what you are.

Btw don't let sterotyping get into your life too much.

[suckmenao]

any solution for my problem? thanks

Stop watching pxxn. And practice safe sex by dating lefty. You're welcome.

[Guest topgun]

I think you think too much, just do whatever u like and enjoy [in sexual terms] why stress to perform when u aren't even getting paid.

There are a lot of muscle god btms [example Francois Sagat] but getting gang-bang does not mean you are a whore. Who told u that btw?

Perhaps normal sex bores you, that's why your body no longer interested in regular fxxking.

fxxk with ppl whom u are comfortable with, do what makes you happy.

If a guy fxxks you and doesn't know how to respect you [unless it's S&M] you can give him a man punch.

If you are a man, you are a man - no need ppl to tell you what you are.

Btw don't let sterotyping get into your life too much.

alot of my frens told me tat n i noe but jus feel more comfortable with top position even my fantasy with guys i like also being top, just tat i cant delete the scene of those pxxn, i think i get addicted adi.

beside that, i jus feel abit hard for me to be bottom, i mind it alot and its abt ego things that i found it hard for me to tolerate.

its not easy for a top to be bottom because or to accept being bottom, its just like asking a homophobia to accept homosexual fully. i hope i can change tat kind of mindset but its jus embedded too deep inside in my soul n mind....

hope u guys understand and i really feel sorry for having tat kind of stubborn mindset

[Guest topgun]

Stop watching pxxn. And practice safe sex by dating lefty. You're welcome.

thx for de advice.....i think u should be quite a nice person

i had quite for sometime..... like half year but habit resume at the end

btw, why dating lefty???

[Guest topgun]

thinking of taking tongkat ali

but dun noe its effective or not?

how much do i hav to take in order to gain result?

some of my frens asking me to tac test like those bodybuilder but i doubt of de side effect

any idea?

anyone taking any medication for harder cock? pls advice here

thx

[Guest Ironrod]

thinking of taking tongkat ali

but dun noe its effective or not?

how much do i hav to take in order to gain result?

some of my frens asking me to tac test like those bodybuilder but i doubt of de side effect

any idea?

anyone taking any medication for harder cock? pls advice here

thx

Forget abt other drugs, only Viagra is tested and proven else u can try cock ring to hold your blood down when u get hard......

I watch pxxn a lot too but getting hard was not a problem - my problem is condoms lol

Anyways it's funny you want to being rape and gang bang yet think your ego is bigger then what u want - so I guess u really wants to be tied up and rape - cheers dude

[Guest topgun]

Forget abt other drugs, only Viagra is tested and proven else u can try cock ring to hold your blood down when u get hard......

I watch pxxn a lot too but getting hard was not a problem - my problem is condoms lol

Anyways it's funny you want to being rape and gang bang yet think your ego is bigger then what u want - so I guess u really wants to be tied up and rape - cheers dude

u cant control ur fantasy, dude....maybe its becos compulsive disorder....keep forcing me to think sth useless....not only in sex but other aspects as well like killing ppl, torture ppl or in opposite saving the world like real hero....lol. but tat doest mean i have to do it rite?

i can get hard too just tat i have to let ppl suck me, wat i mean is i hav a difficulty to get hard witout ppl sucking. sometimes ppl so grab ur cock before wanting u to fxxk him.....so usually wat they feel is soft n not big size(my cock shrink alot when its soft), so they will reject me.....its sound funny but its hurts

how come alot ppl want me be to be btm?? my fren oso keep brain-wash me to become bottom. mostly they want my masculineness to be hammered becos of jealousy.....lol

[Guest topgun]

viagra is effective but unfortunately its way too expensive for me unless i can get cheap supply of it ......some more i dun think i have real physical erectile problem more to physiological problem.....feeling anxious n inconfident

[Guest Ironrod]

u cant control ur fantasy, dude....maybe its becos compulsive disorder....keep forcing me to think sth useless....not only in sex but other aspects as well like killing ppl, torture ppl or in opposite saving the world like real hero....lol. but tat doest mean i have to do it rite?

i can get hard too just tat i have to let ppl suck me, wat i mean is i hav a difficulty to get hard witout ppl sucking. sometimes ppl so grab ur cock before wanting u to fxxk him.....so usually wat they feel is soft n not big size(my cock shrink alot when its soft), so they will reject me.....its sound funny but its hurts

how come alot ppl want me be to be btm?? my fren oso keep brain-wash me to become bottom. mostly they want my masculineness to be hammered becos of jealousy.....lol

Aahah please don't be mistaken, I dunno u in real life so I don't have any ulterior motive against you.

It's your choice and your life you being top or btm really has nothing to do with me but was just giving my 2 cents worth.

[Guest manly btm]

u cant control ur fantasy, dude....maybe its becos compulsive disorder....keep forcing me to think sth useless....not only in sex but other aspects as well like killing ppl, torture ppl or in opposite saving the world like real hero....lol. but tat doest mean i have to do it rite?

i can get hard too just tat i have to let ppl suck me, wat i mean is i hav a difficulty to get hard witout ppl sucking. sometimes ppl so grab ur cock before wanting u to fxxk him.....so usually wat they feel is soft n not big size(my cock shrink alot when its soft), so they will reject me.....its sound funny but its hurts

how come alot ppl want me be to be btm?? my fren oso keep brain-wash me to become bottom. mostly they want my masculineness to be hammered becos of jealousy.....lol

You don't feel as aggressive sexually as a top as before. Maybe you had sex with some aggressive bottoms who looked disappointed after sex.

Then you meet a few tops who molested you aggressively and even though you rejected them, you liked being touched. You used to feel intense pleasure just getting your cock stimulated. Now you began to feel your nipples like being caressed.

You watched pxxn and noticed that the top do most of the work and the bottom only need to open his legs and enjoy the attention from the top.

Slowly, slowly you start thinking about being a bottom but your fear of being ridiculed stopped you. What you cannot do in the daytime, you start fantasizing and dreaming weird dreams at night. You only like masculine men and not uncles but your fears created nightmares making you dream of being gangbanged by a group of uncles.

I've been through the same things as you now :whistle: Some people keep telling you that there is nothing wrong being a bottom but that is bullshit. In real life, your friends will make jokes about you. I can bet that you ever made jokes about other bottoms before too :yuk: It is easy and so common. It is easy to say give them a man punch but you know they will surely sue you. My only way is to do things like twisting their arms or crunching their hands with a hard hold in a friendly way that is not considered raw aggression but still hurt them.

The worst is to start getting lewd suggestions for sex. The tops seem to think that all bottoms are sluts.

Then the bottoms are worst. They are really jealous of the tops and when a masculine top become a bottom, they will bitch and bitch about it to everybody.

They'll all try to get the tops to tell all the juicy details. Some tops won't but most tops will hint here, hint there until it is even worse. Like saying you walk like a crab for a few days....asking how you clean up...and got accidents or not...better use condoms...ever autocum or not and the top will crow about it........

They may not be talking all the time about you but you will feel that your fxxking is always their favorite topic and everything said will always come to relate to it.

You should not try to be a bottom just to see if you will like it. Most likely you will not. Most will just bang bang bang because they still enjoy only stimulating their cocks like a form of masturbating. There are very few good tops who can really show you the pleasures of anal sex. As you already had tried bottoming before, you'll know it is not as fun as the pxxn showed. That is because those are seasoned bottoms who really have very sensitive holes.

But if you meet a good top, your instincts will really sense it.... his aggressiveness feels authoritative and assuring, his masculinity overrides yours, you feel like submitting without being pushed....you want him.....you will do it naturally forgetting all your fears or your father's name :whistle:

Go with your instincts and feelings and good luck.

[Eddy]

u cant control ur fantasy, dude....maybe its becos compulsive disorder....keep forcing me to think sth useless....not only in sex but other aspects as well like killing ppl, torture ppl or in opposite saving the world like real hero....lol. but tat doest mean i have to do it rite?

i can get hard too just tat i have to let ppl suck me, wat i mean is i hav a difficulty to get hard witout ppl sucking. sometimes ppl so grab ur cock before wanting u to fxxk him.....so usually wat they feel is soft n not big size(my cock shrink alot when its soft), so they will reject me.....its sound funny but its hurts

how come alot ppl want me be to be btm?? my fren oso keep brain-wash me to become bottom. mostly they want my masculineness to be hammered becos of jealousy.....lol

Aiyoh, not jealousy lah.

They are just horny and want to fcuk you up.

It's a kind of power play that is fcuking kinky.

Top gets forced into bottoming... mmmmm...

Not that i really want the top to become a permanent bottom.

I'm sure you've seen guys you like who turned out to be Tops but fantasized fcuking.

p.s. torture and killing fantasy can be fun too. Fantasy of course. nothing fatal

[Guest topgun]

hey, guys! thx for reply my thread so touch u guys contribute ur thought

i have been discuss this with my good fren(gay of cos). he told me is usual fantasy cos we are gays, gays always have wild thought.

which gay dare to say he never imagine himself get fxxked for a second in his life time??

now i noe i jus think too much since i too lonely(lonely soul).

he oso told me how to determine whether someone is top or bottom in a relationship is de spontaneous fantasy when u look someone or ur type....if u imagine u being fxxked, mostly u wil become bottom if u happen u fall in love with him and vice versa.

for me, i always imagine guys of my type get fxxked by me cos i really like enjoy look their eyes closed, mourning subconsciously, or sucking my cock and n i cum or their mouth(with their eyes closed) and most of all, i like to see their all body muscle(clear cut six pack and big chest, i mean really big chest)arched and flexed when they get fxxked...lol

[Eddy]

hey, guys! thx for reply my thread so touch u guys contribute ur thought

i have been discuss this with my good fren(gay of cos). he told me is usual fantasy cos we are gays, gays always have wild thought.

which gay dare to say he never imagine himself get fxxked for a second in his life time??

now i noe i jus think too much since i too lonely(lonely soul).

he oso told me how to determine whether someone is top or bottom in a relationship is de spontaneous fantasy when u look someone or ur type....if u imagine u being fxxked, mostly u wil become bottom if u happen u fall in love with him and vice versa.

for me, i always imagine guys of my type get fxxked by me cos i really like enjoy look their eyes closed, mourning subconsciously, or sucking my cock and n i cum or their mouth(with their eyes closed) and most of all, i like to see their all body muscle(clear cut six pack and big chest, i mean really big chest)arched and flexed when they get fxxked...lol

Aiyoh, str8 people can have wild thoughts also lah.

Stop making it sound like gays are sex pervert mutants.

*scratches neck with tail and licks cock with long forked tonuge...*

[suckmenao]

I sometimes imagine fxxking big manly muscular guy when I'm really horny.

[Guest alien]

Actually i find those xxx usually btm are muscular or even some are quite manly?! Whereas u might find not so muscular guys or even skinny guy being the top and fxxking the muscular btm. Dun know whether it's just happen in xxx or real life also same?

[Guest topgun]

Actually i find those xxx usually btm are muscular or even some are quite manly?! Whereas u might find not so muscular guys or even skinny guy being the top and fxxking the muscular btm. Dun know whether it's just happen in xxx or real life also same?

ya, agree. maybe their targeted viewer are those skinny type of top whose keep thinking fxxking muscular manly bottom to satisfy their sexual desire.....just like those japanese straight pxxn where there is old fat uncle fxxking a young pretty cute girl to fullfill those uncle type viewer.....lol

of cos i hope i can always have those muscular bottom but real life is of different thing from pxxn. its not easy to have muscular men to be ur bottom if u are not hot with good fxxking skill....

[GachiMuchi]

ya, agree. maybe their targeted viewer are those skinny type of top whose keep thinking fxxking muscular manly bottom to satisfy their sexual desire.....just like those japanese straight pxxn where there is old fat uncle fxxking a young pretty cute girl to fullfill those uncle type viewer.....lol

of cos i hope i can always have those muscular bottom but real life is of different thing from pxxn. its not easy to have muscular men to be ur bottom if u are not hot with good fxxking skill....

Firstly, no one will know if ur skill are good or bad until they goes to bed with u.

Secondly, whether you are hot or not as subjective, but that said, you must go to a place where your attributes are well received.

[Guest alien]

Firstly, no one will know if ur skill are good or bad until they goes to bed with u.

Secondly, whether you are hot or not as subjective, but that said, you must go to a place where your attributes are well received.

I think even whether your skill on bed is gd or not also very subjective. Cos how u define gd skill or bad skill leh?

[Guest alien]

ya, agree. maybe their targeted viewer are those skinny type of top whose keep thinking fxxking muscular manly bottom to satisfy their sexual desire.....just like those japanese straight pxxn where there is old fat uncle fxxking a young pretty cute girl to fullfill those uncle type viewer.....lol

of cos i hope i can always have those muscular bottom but real life is of different thing from pxxn. its not easy to have muscular men to be ur bottom if u are not hot with good fxxking skill....

So u mean in pxxn is totally different from real life? Usually in real life most btm wld be skinny type, whereas top is muscular type?

Actually in pxxn, i always see both guys are muscular or bod quite nice, no matter whether the guy is btm or top. Perhaps this is purely just acting only, tht's y they always have nice bod guys.

[suckmenao]

I think even whether your skill on bed is gd or not also very subjective. Cos how u define gd skill or bad skill leh?

Good: little pain, much pleasure, or quite painful but still pleasurable and addictive.

Bad: painful like hell, lasts for 3 minutes or less, but the pain won't go away.

[GachiMuchi]

I think even whether your skill on bed is gd or not also very subjective. Cos how u define gd skill or bad skill leh?

True, agree. Of course good or bad skills are subjective.

[Guest alien]

Good: little pain, much pleasure, or quite painful but still pleasurable and addictive.

Bad: painful like hell, lasts for 3 minutes or less, but the pain won't go away.

To sum up, whether the skill gd or not still pain on bed, but depends the level of painful, and whether it is shiok pain or not.

[suckmenao]

To sum up, whether the skill gd or not still pain on bed, but depends the level of painful, and whether it is shiok pain or not.

a very manly guy with huge tool once told me he only wanna get fxxked when he's stress, prolly because the pain can be oddly comforting

[Guest alien]

a very manly guy with huge tool once told me he only wanna get fxxked when he's stress, prolly because the pain can be oddly comforting

Haha, maybe tht manly guy is into SM?! Like to torture himself to de-stress?! Although getting fxxked confirm will be painful, no mattre how gd the top is but if the top is gd, the pain indeed can be comforting.

[Guest Guest]

i afraid one day i will become a slut btm that beg for cocks.

Is that what you think of all the bottoms who have been with you?

[Guest topgun]

Is that what you think of all the bottoms who have been with you?

not really

but wat portrayed in pxxn where de decription will forever should sound like '....hungry for a big cock n cant wait to slip de cock into his tight ass....' thing like tat

[thorzguy]

In any anal (or even oral) sex, the most important aspect is for both to enjoy. Lots of people may think lesser of the bottom, but hey, if everyone is a TOP, then how? It takes 2 hands to clap.

topgun - you need not worry "craving" for cock.. you already mentioned those are portrayed in pxxn and you knows pxxn is different in real life. So, get going, be it Top or Bottom, just enjoy!

[lesbrown]

I don't often get fxxked, mostly is just giving way to another flex top. So in the past, I didn't really get much pleasure from being a bottom although the thought can be quite hot. It's only recently that I really felt the shiok-ness of being fxxked. Maybe you just really need to explore instead of just imagining.

[azuchan]

a very manly guy with huge tool once told me he only wanna get fxxked when he's stress, prolly because the pain can be oddly comforting

Most likely when he's getting fxxked, he's dealing all the different sensations at the same time so much so that it makes him forget the source of his stress at the moment.

[Guest bx]

a very manly guy with huge tool once told me he only wanna get fxxked when he's stress, prolly because the pain can be oddly comforting

I too felt that way sometimes when things seem to go wrong. The responsibilities I had to bear are driving me nuts. I wished to have a shoulder to lay on and be cuddled like a kid. But being a grown man, the closest I could get was to be anally taken by another man and be comforted in offering my body to be caressed and used in the most intimate way. I felt weak and enjoy his strength in taking me anally. I give up on thinking too much and obeyed whatever he wanted to do to me.

But....after that I regretted..sigh...

[hungbottom88]

Hi, I was wondering if there are any top here who eventually found his true calling and became bottom?

I used to think i was top/flex till i was broken by a few top/dom in my life. I guess in life its important to know your place and mine I have discovered is on my kneels, infront of the cock of a real man.When with friends, I am a straight acting, dignified regular guy who dig chicks. Yet when with my dom, I am just a cocksucker, man pussy for his pleasure. I have been made go free balling while out with him, fingered while in cinema, shaven and totally naked at pool shower and exhibited at fort road park. In the room or sauna, I get on my kneels to receive some serious throat fxxking, or assume face down, ass up position to receive another round of mindless ass fxxking. It's when I see my 15cm hard dick swinging between my legs, head pulled back by my hair when getting fxxked by another guy that I finally realize this is what I was born to do.

Anyone else keen to share their experience?

[Guest Glyph]

No offense but you consider 6" hung?

[SeannyShortcake]

I think everyone's true calling is to flex. In the gay world I mean.

There can always be circumstances where tops be persuaded to btm and btms discovering the pleasure of topping.

[Guest Guest]

What did they do to break you ? To make you know what you were ?

I used to think i was top/flex till i was broken by a few top/dom in my life. I guess in life its important to know your place and mine I have discovered is on my kneels, infront of the cock of a real man.

[Guest btt]

well, use to be only top, but when you love someone more than yourself and he is top all of the time then you just become bottom...

[knight]

sometimes when you're super emo the top becomes a bottom

[Guest Glyph]

^ That.

[Curious_Mac]

Im a top but curious to be a bottom. Have not tried being entered though. But thinking about it makes me really hard.

[Guest stbrianud]

Not sure but I don't see the difference really.. That's probably why I'm vers lol

[thaiboyz]

Some borned to be naturally top, the feeling of raising legs and get their ass rimmed and fingered will turned off totally. Some are so 'bottom' inclined that the sight of ass would make them puke haha. There are macho and femine tops and bottoms, they have their own market shares, just like those skinny and chubby guys. Then we will meet those who are 50/50 enjoying both sides of the Aj world. I believe except the extreme groups mentioned, guys would usually tried both and decided to play the role which is more pleasurable. To me, if a guy is so enjoyed to be top, I dun think he will consider to play a bottom role even if he has tried if given a chance

[allmyimages2020]

My "urges" in sexual situations decide for me :-) though I was mostly top for most of my younger days gradually becoming half-half! Still I am very "accomodating" if the other person want to be top or bottom.

[bohemian]

It depends on my opponent. If he more top then me then I become btm. If he more btm then me then I become top.

[Guest Guest]

It depends on my opponent. If he more top then me then I become btm. If he more btm then me then I become top.

Yes that applies to me too when i meet a guy i like. I also love sucking cock and getting my cock sucked. Best of both world?

[Guest Guest]

TS you are now a pure btm ?

[Guest TWO]

You are a submissive man. Mentally you want to submit to a stronger man, DOM.

The language you use indicates that you like to submit. The mental act of submission and humiliation by them gives you the high.

Nowhere in your description did you talk about the physical anal stimulation that pleasures you.

Because that isn't the high you seek.

There are two type of bottom.

Some seek domination. The other seek anal pleasure. You are the former.

Hi, I was wondering if there are any top here who eventually found his true calling and became bottom?

I used to think i was top/flex till i was broken by a few top/dom in my life. I guess in life its important to know your place and mine I have discovered is on my kneels, infront of the cock of a real man.When with friends, I am a straight acting, dignified regular guy who dig chicks. Yet when with my dom, I am just a cocksucker, man pussy for his pleasure. I have been made go free balling while out with him, fingered while in cinema, shaven and totally naked at pool shower and exhibited at fort road park. In the room or sauna, I get on my kneels to receive some serious throat fxxking, or assume face down, ass up position to receive another round of mindless ass fxxking. It's when I see my 15cm hard dick swinging between my legs, head pulled back by my hair when getting fxxked by another guy that I finally realize this is what I was born to do.

Anyone else keen to share their experience?

[hungbottom88]

What did they do to break you ? To make you know what you were ?

Hmm, i guess you just need the right person to show you your place. I think it started out simply by being forced to go down on my kneels and suck dick and then it went on to being made to beg to get fxxked.