Guest Rivrics Posted January 31, 2012 Report Share Posted January 31, 2012 It is of wonder what are the factors for consideration of safe sex vs bareback? What do you practice?It is interesting to note seancody.com used to be all safe sex however at the turn of 2012, he started shooting bareback. However at the end of the video he does interview with the actors on the education of testing and their voluntary participation in such activity.For me personally, raincoat always. Unless you are sure you will be satisfied and so is the other party for life, BB then can be discussed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
matthewleon Posted January 31, 2012 Report Share Posted January 31, 2012 I just had bareback sex in my dream last night......Bottom here :-)Awesome sex.... I really tot I had sex when I woke up :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted January 31, 2012 Report Share Posted January 31, 2012 just be responsible with what you are doing, not just for your loved one but yourself, is your life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mango_juice Posted January 31, 2012 Report Share Posted January 31, 2012 putting raincoat is like eating fish balls instead of fish.. eating nuggets instead of chicken.. it never feels like the real thing JamesAdmas and Fit4Masc 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mango_juice Posted January 31, 2012 Report Share Posted January 31, 2012 putting raincoat is like eating fish balls instead of fish.. eating nuggets instead of chicken.. it never feels like the real thing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest be safe Posted January 31, 2012 Report Share Posted January 31, 2012 putting raincoat is like eating fish balls instead of fish.. eating nuggets instead of chicken.. it never feels like the real thing When u kenna HIV, no amount of REAL fish or chicken can help cure you !! lovehandle, Balestier, camus and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Billy Posted January 25, 2016 Report Share Posted January 25, 2016 It feels great doing bareback but you must know and trust your partner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hairy springroll Posted January 25, 2016 Report Share Posted January 25, 2016 No one can be trusted Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigdanbeam Posted January 25, 2016 Report Share Posted January 25, 2016 10 hours ago, hairy springroll said: No one can be trusted Not even yourself? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Traveler3032 Posted January 25, 2016 Report Share Posted January 25, 2016 I admit I find bb sex porno is more exciting to watch. But I can never do it in the real life with strangers. Unless two parties trust each other in a monogamous relationship, then it's playing with fire. PrEP is available, but why should one puts toxic chemicals in his body just for a moment's marginal benefits? The other issue is that sex without condom is messier. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 25, 2016 Report Share Posted January 25, 2016 haha my fren BB dunno how many years...last week just got tested reactive. this week waiting for his confirmation. enjoy at ur risk. dont regret later. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azimuth Posted January 25, 2016 Report Share Posted January 25, 2016 1 hour ago, Guest said: haha my fren BB dunno how many years...last week just got tested reactive. this week waiting for his confirmation. enjoy at ur risk. dont regret later. Your friend is considered lucky. There are people who barebacked once and tested positive after. This kind of risk is not worth undertaking in my opinion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 25, 2016 Report Share Posted January 25, 2016 yup. he is lucky. i know him for 12 yrs.....so now pos.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DON Posted July 5, 2017 Report Share Posted July 5, 2017 Hell no with strangers. Always safe sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted July 5, 2017 Report Share Posted July 5, 2017 On 1/25/2016 at 9:01 PM, Traveler3032 said: I admit I find bb sex porno is more exciting to watch. But I can never do it in the real life with strangers. Unless two parties trust each other in a monogamous relationship, then it's playing with fire. PrEP is available, but why should one puts toxic chemicals in his body just for a moment's marginal benefits? The other issue is that sex without condom is messier. u forgot the anxiety and worries after the BB and the moment u received the test result. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted July 5, 2017 Report Share Posted July 5, 2017 On 1/25/2016 at 9:01 PM, Traveler3032 said: I admit I find bb sex porno is more exciting to watch. But I can never do it in the real life with strangers. Unless two parties trust each other in a monogamous relationship, then it's playing with fire. PrEP is available, but why should one puts toxic chemicals in his body just for a moment's marginal benefits? The other issue is that sex without condom is messier. prep is not cheap and it has side effects Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fourth Posted July 7, 2017 Report Share Posted July 7, 2017 on PrEP. haha.. Quote +65 9090 four four nine six (WA), fourthandthird (Line) Tiong Bahru market vicinity $80 / hr - tui na + minor fixing + bone setting (if necessary) $35 (approx 15 mins + -) - 抓根 Zhua Gen ($5 bundling discount applies when not done stand-alone) $50 flat rate - treatment of lower back / disc herniation issues. Add $10 for additional area. Gua sha - $15 $36 bonesetting-and-go (5 - 10 mins) Daily 10am to 10pm last appt but please text in advance. Special early / ultra late appts are possible, just book in advance. Please keep your mask on 😃 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest Pooter Posted July 9, 2017 Report Share Posted July 9, 2017 I was in a threesome recently. Me and another guy were topping a bottom. At one point, I was kissing the bottom while the other top switched positions to fuck him doggy style. After a few strokes I noticed that the other top pulled off his condom. I asked the bottom if he wanted that guy to bareback him? The bottom pushed the other top's dick out of his ass and that guy shot onto the bed. The bottom was angry because that selfish jerk potentially put his health at risk, but the other top acted like he did nothing wrong and blamed me for ruining his fun, and then threatened to destroy my reputation among our few common acquaintances. What is wrong with people like this guy? I don't know if the other top has any diseases, of course, but nobody should be barebacking an unsuspecting bottom who expects a condom to be used. There are three possibilities. (1) The other top has a disease and wants to spread it. (2) The other top doesn't know or care whether he or the bottom have any diseases. (3) The other top is confident that he doesn't have any diseases and thinks being a top can protect him from any diseases the bottom may have. While we all said we have no diseases beforehand, there is also the possibility that somebody lied, or two people lied (I am definitely clean). Just another warning for bottoms to be extra careful about sneaky tops. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted July 9, 2017 Report Share Posted July 9, 2017 30 minutes ago, Guest Pooter said: I was in a threesome recently. Me and another guy were topping a bottom. At one point, I was kissing the bottom while the other top switched positions to fuck him doggy style. After a few strokes I noticed that the other top pulled off his condom. I asked the bottom if he wanted that guy to bareback him? The bottom pushed the other top's dick out of his ass and that guy shot onto the bed. The bottom was angry because that selfish jerk potentially put his health at risk, but the other top acted like he did nothing wrong and blamed me for ruining his fun, and then threatened to destroy my reputation among our few common acquaintances. What is wrong with people like this guy? I don't know if the other top has any diseases, of course, but nobody should be barebacking an unsuspecting bottom who expects a condom to be used. There are three possibilities. (1) The other top has a disease and wants to spread it. (2) The other top doesn't know or care whether he or the bottom have any diseases. (3) The other top is confident that he doesn't have any diseases and thinks being a top can protect him from any diseases the bottom may have. While we all said we have no diseases beforehand, there is also the possibility that somebody lied, or two people lied (I am definitely clean). Just another warning for bottoms to be extra careful about sneaky tops. that's provided that disgusting guy went for HIV testing recently. Must have freaked that bottom out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted July 9, 2017 Report Share Posted July 9, 2017 I once volunteered a month at a hospice with AIDS patients in Thailand. Full blown AIDS leave a long lasting impression. I'm not scaring but sharing what I've seen. Mortality is high, coffins are stacked outside wards. Patients often bed ridden. Its easy to change diapers cos my patients usually weight 40+ kg making it easy to lift them. Skin infections more difficult to clean cos its all over the body. If they ooze pus, the patient get stuck to bedsheet. When the pus dried, i spend noons peeling the dry skin (with gloves). Constipation becomes a problem if they shitted during night shifts. Faeces cake up (grey colour) n theyre too weak to even ask for help. Unbelievable trip of my life! In Sg, access to volunteer for full blown AIDS patients a bit restricted. Seeing is believing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Mahathir Posted July 9, 2017 Report Share Posted July 9, 2017 On 7/7/2017 at 11:40 AM, Balestier said: This 50+ uncle is very rich, worked in Government, always go to Bangkok for fun.....since 2000 till now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted July 9, 2017 Report Share Posted July 9, 2017 On 07/07/2017 at 11:40 AM, Balestier said: 1 hour ago, Guest Mahathir said: This 50+ uncle is very rich, worked in Government, always go to Bangkok for fun.....since 2000 till now. What is the story behind this? Are you one of the victim? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgmaven Posted July 9, 2017 Report Share Posted July 9, 2017 I find it strange that people think that BB sex is completely safe if you are on PreP. PreP is not 100%. Besides, there are many other risks, including Hepatitis C. Quote Слава Україні! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted July 9, 2017 Report Share Posted July 9, 2017 bottoms need to be careful of some tops removing their condom secretly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted July 9, 2017 Report Share Posted July 9, 2017 22 minutes ago, Balestier said: bottoms need to be careful of some tops removing their condom secretly. How about btms need to be careful of which tops they are sleeping with? Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 1 hour ago, fab said: How about btms need to be careful of which tops they are sleeping with? In fact, do anal sex with your other half only. someone u can trust Mroneonline 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jsaw88 Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 You did nothing wrong. It should be the other top who's despicable. Let him tell others and threaten to "ruin your reputation". People will judge him, not you. 19 hours ago, Guest Pooter said: I was in a threesome recently. Me and another guy were topping a bottom. At one point, I was kissing the bottom while the other top switched positions to fuck him doggy style. After a few strokes I noticed that the other top pulled off his condom. I asked the bottom if he wanted that guy to bareback him? The bottom pushed the other top's dick out of his ass and that guy shot onto the bed. The bottom was angry because that selfish jerk potentially put his health at risk, but the other top acted like he did nothing wrong and blamed me for ruining his fun, and then threatened to destroy my reputation among our few common acquaintances. What is wrong with people like this guy? I don't know if the other top has any diseases, of course, but nobody should be barebacking an unsuspecting bottom who expects a condom to be used. There are three possibilities. (1) The other top has a disease and wants to spread it. (2) The other top doesn't know or care whether he or the bottom have any diseases. (3) The other top is confident that he doesn't have any diseases and thinks being a top can protect him from any diseases the bottom may have. While we all said we have no diseases beforehand, there is also the possibility that somebody lied, or two people lied (I am definitely clean). Just another warning for bottoms to be extra careful about sneaky tops. tomcat 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jsaw88 Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 Sorry, I meant "It should be the other top who ought to be ashamed of himself for such a despicable act." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Barecent Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 I seldom do anal and when I did, it used to be with condom. Recently watched two guys doing it in front of me raw. I was so attracted by them and even let the bottom sucked my cock. I washed after that under one minute of sucking. The top was still fucking then he withdrew his huge tool which had me gone crazy seeing them. Without any thinking, I just took over the fucking for under 30 seconds then I went into a cubicle to wash my cock. The couple came in and latched the door. I immediately unlatched it and told them I am not continuing and then wentover to the adjacent cubicle. The bottom came in and went straight for my cock sucking harder and not letting go. Then he flashed his backside to me and begged me to do it again and to shoot inside him. I was not thinking at all and decided I will fuck him as I sensed I could be cumming soon. When I shot into him I also couldn't control making loud sounds out of relieving sexual tension. Yes now I do regret doing it. But I also came to understand the partial reason for my lost of control. Its the issue of with or without condom. I used to have to keep squeezing my cock when it is not inside the arse in order to hold on to the condom. That's really causing unnessary interference. My mind had to worry about keeping the condom and soon my cock wouldn't be that hard or even be able to that job. Without condom, my cock seems to be always hard. Whatever , I strongly agree to playing it the safe way. Next time no more. Troublesome now. Need to have a window period of six months before medical check. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Guest Guest Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 We cannot deny that bareback sex feels good, after all, it is natural. But there are too many dangers in the modern world that humans have not evolved to deal with yet. HIV is the worst disease because it will complicate your life, drain your finances, make you sick if not treated at great cost, and eventually kill you. But barebacking with people you know little to nothing about also puts you at risk for gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, chlamydia, hepatitis, HPV, several other STDs I can't even spell without looking them up, and bacterial infections from smegma (dick cheese) and feces (shit). PrEP can't protect you from any of those. I am not writing this to "scare" anybody, but think about whether you want the problems sexually transmitted diseases can bring into your life just for the limited pleasure of fucking without a condom, often for a short period of time. Think about your future. Use condoms unless you are in a no-cheating relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hahahasaa Posted July 10, 2017 Report Share Posted July 10, 2017 1 hour ago, Guest Barecent said: I seldom do anal and when I did, it used to be with condom. Recently watched two guys doing it in front of me raw. I was so attracted by them and even let the bottom sucked my cock. I washed after that under one minute of sucking. The top was still fucking then he withdrew his huge tool which had me gone crazy seeing them. Without any thinking, I just took over the fucking for under 30 seconds then I went into a cubicle to wash my cock. The couple came in and latched the door. I immediately unlatched it and told them I am not continuing and then wentover to the adjacent cubicle. The bottom came in and went straight for my cock sucking harder and not letting go. Then he flashed his backside to me and begged me to do it again and to shoot inside him. I was not thinking at all and decided I will fuck him as I sensed I could be cumming soon. When I shot into him I also couldn't control making loud sounds out of relieving sexual tension. Yes now I do regret doing it. But I also came to understand the partial reason for my lost of control. Its the issue of with or without condom. I used to have to keep squeezing my cock when it is not inside the arse in order to hold on to the condom. That's really causing unnessary interference. My mind had to worry about keeping the condom and soon my cock wouldn't be that hard or even be able to that job. Without condom, my cock seems to be always hard. Whatever , I strongly agree to playing it the safe way. Next time no more. Troublesome now. Need to have a window period of six months before medical check. Hope u r not infected. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jocker Posted July 11, 2017 Report Share Posted July 11, 2017 Year 2000 - 2010 of infected ppl vs year 2011 - now is even increasing. Sex is so easily available compared to decades ago, and now all boys go gym to have good bodies, who are not physically attracted to sex. lol. For those married, pls be wise as once you are infected and your wife will be contacted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Pooter Posted July 11, 2017 Report Share Posted July 11, 2017 On July 9, 2017 at 10:35 PM, jsaw88 said: You did nothing wrong. It should be the other top who's despicable. Let him tell others and threaten to "ruin your reputation". People will judge him, not you. I will try to ignore his threats. I am more upset with myself about getting involved with such a low character person. I am horrified to think what could have happened to that bottom if I had not been there and they were one-on-one. I thought he was a nice guy, but he was just putting on a friendly face in public, and a monster mask in bed. On July 9, 2017 at 7:45 PM, fab said: How about btms need to be careful of which tops they are sleeping with? Tops and bottoms both need to be careful who they are sleeping with. There is no denying, however, that bottoms are slightly more at risk of getting diseases from barebacking if the top shoots into his ass, but also from leaking precum into his ass, or possibly thrusting too vigorously and making him bleed. There is risk for both however. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dynox Posted July 14, 2017 Report Share Posted July 14, 2017 (edited) Take prep, use condoms. If you have regular sex, you probably get an STI, that's just part of it. It's not a big deal. just get it treated and always get tested. The good news if that UD=UT (or U=U) so don't worry too much about it. As long as you screw around with educated and matured men, you'll be fine. Check out all the hypochondriacs in this post... it's hilarious. Edited July 14, 2017 by dynox Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TwoChnBTMs Posted July 14, 2017 Report Share Posted July 14, 2017 They breed...u bleed...Be safe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Phlashbach Posted July 16, 2017 Report Share Posted July 16, 2017 Everybody doesn't like uncles. In fact "most" young gay guys only like other young guys. And worrying about HIV and other Sexually Transmitted Diseases is not being a hypochondriac. I also know guys who have been having gay sex regularly for 20 years or more, and swear they have never had any sort of sexual infection, and yes they get tested regularly. What they told me they do is always use condoms for anal and never suck or even kiss anybody if they have sores in their mouth. They taught me a lot, and the lessons sank in well, and I wish everybody could have such kindhearted advisers when they first step into the gay scene. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justanotherme Posted July 16, 2017 Report Share Posted July 16, 2017 Had an encounter with a blanglah worker. Lean fit, suave look. As I was jerking him off, he asked me to fuck him, raw. Despite my raging dick and having a piece of fresh meat right before my eyes, I rejected his offer. Then, he requested to fuck me, bare, which I declined too. Just imagine the number of person who has did it with him raw. Letting the dick take over your thinking is never a wise thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted July 16, 2017 Report Share Posted July 16, 2017 We take risk of various kind everyday. Then we should expect one day one of those risk will come back to bite us. So accept it gracefully then and not moan and bitch others for it. Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted July 16, 2017 Report Share Posted July 16, 2017 1 minute ago, upshot said: We take risk of various kind everyday. Then we should expect one day one of those risk will come back to bite us. So accept it gracefully then and not moan and bitch others for it. moan ?? Aaarrggggg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted July 16, 2017 Report Share Posted July 16, 2017 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Balestier said: moan ?? Aaarrggggg Sorry wrote it wrongly.. it should be Bitch and Moan. It's not a typo.. it is an idiom.... bitch and moan bitch and moan (rude) to complain Don't start bitching and moaning again about what I pay you. See also: and, bitch, moan Edited July 16, 2017 by upshot Balestier 1 Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted July 16, 2017 Report Share Posted July 16, 2017 14 minutes ago, upshot said: Sorry wrote it wrongly.. it should be Bitch and Moan. It's not a typo.. it is an idiom.... bitch and moan bitch and moan (rude) to complain Don't start bitching and moaning again about what I pay you. See also: and, bitch, moan just being bitchy on a Sunday night Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted July 16, 2017 Report Share Posted July 16, 2017 52 minutes ago, Balestier said: just being bitchy on a Sunday night Got cha.... well we are all entitled to expressing ourselves I guess hahahah Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gosh Posted July 16, 2017 Report Share Posted July 16, 2017 On 07/07/2017 at 11:40 AM, Balestier said: "I only did it with my bf. Now, we're diagnosed HIV positive." Do you mean that the uncle did you raw and gave you HIV. And you in turn passed it to your BF when he had sex with you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Phlashbach Posted July 16, 2017 Report Share Posted July 16, 2017 If a bottom says to use a condom, the top should use a condom, full stop. No sneaking it off in the middle of sex and then reinserting an uncovered dick into the unaware bottom's ass. I can't think of a more dangerous or disrespectful thing to do to another person, especially if the top shoots cum inside, or even dribbles a little bit of precum cum inside. rockyhorry1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balestier Posted July 16, 2017 Report Share Posted July 16, 2017 2 minutes ago, Guest Phlashbach said: If a bottom says to use a condom, the top should use a condom, full stop. No sneaking it off in the middle of sex and then reinserting an uncovered dick into the unaware bottom's ass. I can't think of a more dangerous or disrespectful thing to do to another person, especially if the top shoots cum inside, or even dribbles a little bit of precum cum inside. its a misuse of trust. selfish jerk who doesn't care of this sexual partner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blank Posted September 7, 2018 Report Share Posted September 7, 2018 I know this guy for quite sometime now. We had sex already about 3 times until yesterday the recent one he fucked me without condom. I had a bit of hesitation but I still allow him to do it because I believed him when he said he is clean. Should I still be anxious because of what happened? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John35 Posted September 17, 2018 Report Share Posted September 17, 2018 On 9/7/2018 at 5:14 PM, Guest Blank said: I know this guy for quite sometime now. We had sex already about 3 times until yesterday the recent one he fucked me without condom. I had a bit of hesitation but I still allow him to do it because I believed him when he said he is clean. Should I still be anxious because of what happened? I believe that you already know the obvious answer to that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unifsg Posted September 17, 2018 Report Share Posted September 17, 2018 On 9/7/2018 at 5:14 PM, Guest Blank said: I know this guy for quite sometime now. We had sex already about 3 times until yesterday the recent one he fucked me without condom. I had a bit of hesitation but I still allow him to do it because I believed him when he said he is clean. Should I still be anxious because of what happened? In case you still don't know, please go get tested Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest RonYiShouSanDeNvRen Posted September 17, 2018 Report Share Posted September 17, 2018 On 9/7/2018 at 5:14 PM, Guest Blank said: I know this guy for quite sometime now. We had sex already about 3 times until yesterday the recent one he fucked me without condom. I had a bit of hesitation but I still allow him to do it because I believed him when he said he is clean. Should I still be anxious because of what happened? If you believe in men, you better go eat sh*t ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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