Frequent Ejecualation Affects Yin Yang Balance?

[Guest YinYang]

An interesting article I found.

 

COME AGAIN? EJACULATION, AFFAIRS AND YIN AND YANG

by Jost Sauer

 

In Western medicine, sex is not considered an integral part of health, in Traditional Chinese Medicine though, sexual practices are considered to have a huge impact on health by affecting levels of ‘Jing’, a substance which determines your basic constitutional strength and vitality. Jing is supposed be carefully managed but there are lots of things that we do that can contribute to its decline, and consequently an earlier death, and excessive ejaculation in men is one of these.

 

In my work as a therapist, I have noted that many men use ejaculation either to control a high sex drive or to deal with stress. In terms of the latter, in the contemporary workplace we are expected to perform high-pressure jobs at a frantic pace and stress levels are rising astronomically. Once stress reaches a certain level it is no longer beneficial. It causes the energy flow in your body to stagnate so your temper quickens, your shoulder muscles tighten, your head tilts forward and your breathing becomes shallow and many people feel on the verge of ‘losing it’. Sexual activity, instigates an energy flow and under sexual stimulus, physical and mental symptoms immediately ease. This is why, if you are highly stressed and then masturbate, the symptoms almost completely disappear. At the point of ejaculation, the external world and all its problems vanish. I have had patients who ejaculated two or three times a day to manage stress.

 

The system does work but in the physical act of ejaculation a certain amount of Jing is lost and if you repeatedly ejaculate without allowing time to recover in between, it can become detrimental to your health. In the West this is an alien concept. We think that sex is recreational and we should do it as often as we can. But if you don’t apply intelligence to your sex life, after a while imbalances will arise. The time it takes for you to notice these depends on your constitutional type. I once had a classic ‘Yang type’ patient who had strong Kidney Yang, high levels of Jing and the associated high sex drive. He was used to

ejaculating several times a day and when he found work as a male escort, he thought it was the ultimate job. He got to have sex every day, sometimes several times a day, and he got paid for it. Eventually he moved into porn films. He did quite well as he could ejaculate repeatedly and project sperm up to two metres (the amount of sperm produced and the distance it can be projected is connected to Kidney Yang and Jing). After a few years in the business though, he started to develop symptoms. An early indicator was a sort of popping or ringing sound in the ears as he ejaculated then fatigue, dizziness, blurred vision, weak knees, frequent urination and lower backache followed. His ejaculation lost power and this

ended his career.

 

In TCM it is recommended that the weekly ejaculation rate be controlled and there is actually an ejaculation-rate table for men, based on age and state of health. For example if you are in your early 40s and in relatively good health, ejaculation once every three days is recommended. If you are younger the rate is higher and if you are older it is lower.

 

Nowhere on the chart does it recommend ejaculation three times a day! When I mention this to male patients though I always meet resistance. It was the same for me when I was introduced to the idea. I had just taken up Tai-chi and the instructor, a strong and energetic man whom I respected, said that in order to properly understand Tai-chi the men in the group would have to stop ejaculating for a while and then ejaculate maybe only once or twice a week at the most. He then added that his Tai-chi Master only ejaculated twice a year! Everyone stared at him in total disbelief. A lot of the students were real Yang types

and the frequency of their ejaculation, amount of sperm produced and distance it could be projected were all fundamental components of their personas. I myself nearly walked out thinking, ‘if that’s what Tai-chi is about, I’m out of here’.

 

I ignored the suggestion for a while but eventually my studies in Traditional Chinese medicine and my ongoing Chi training made me start to understand the connection between ejaculation rates, health and Jing. I became curious and began reading books which suggested that transcending the desire to ejaculate, not only conserved Jing but enabled you access deeper and more profound sexual experiences. Theoretically this sounded great and it inspired me to try it out. In practice though it was much more difficult. Sexual energies are always of a Yang nature, as they associate with action rather than passivity. As men are already primarily Yang in nature, sexual arousal for them is ‘Yang on Yang’ – a ‘double Yang’ state in which ‘advance and act’ dictates behaviour. This is why, when sexually aroused, there is such a powerful primal urge to complete that stimulus through ejaculation. Transcending that desire, which is achieved by feeling the Yang rising in the Kidneys but then focusing on ‘not doing it’, a Yin quality, is initially mental and physical torture. But, if you persist, you eventually develop ‘retreat and wait’ skills that nourish the Yin. This means you develop a more balanced sexual desire and, accordingly, will experience

orgasms which continually become deeper, longer and more powerful. This is more beneficial sex too, because ‘double Yang’ sex consumes more Jing than sex that climaxes with a deep and fulfilling orgasm and ‘double Yang’ sex prepares the ground for future sexual problems and dysfunction.

 

In the West there are no guidelines for managing high sex drives. I have had many male patients who had high Jing levels and the associated high sex-drive and they over-ejaculated to manage this, particularly in their 20s and 30s. Many then experienced sexual dysfunction such as impotence in their 40s and 50s. There is, of course, impotence medication but this usually generates erections by flooding the penis with blood. It

artificially creates a Yang state of ‘advance and act’ again but this is just what the body had been trying to avoid. Impotence can be viewed as strategy implemented by the body to protect more important organ functions (such as that of the Heart). The extra Yang required for the erection, is forced to draw from a weak Yin, making the underlying imbalance worse and this can have serious repercussions. Because the impotence medication creates an artificial Yang state, the man’s heart rate increases. This means that muscle contractions increase – an action requiring lubrication which is a Yin quality. However, because the man is already Yin depleted, which is why he is taking the medication in the first place, he will not have the Yin available to support the increased action of the heart. The muscles are then unable to keep up with the stimulus and heart attack can be the result.

 

In TCM impotence is avoided by monitoring ejaculation and focussing on building Yin, Chi and Jing. A program to maintain a healthy Yin level includes acupuncture or Bodywork to reduce pathological or excessive Yang, and nutritional supplements or Chinese herbs to help build Yin. Taking up a daily Chi-building practice such as Tai-chi, is also beneficial. It allows you to build Yang in the presence of Yin, but it also allows you to become sensitive to Chi and to the Yin and Yang interactions that occur during sexual arousal and interaction. If you build Yin, you will not being driven purely by the physical intent to

ejaculate so you will be able to enter into a more refined state of sensual interaction. You will be able to surrender more deeply and be guided by the interplay of male and female, or Yin and Yang. This enables you to respond to your partner in a more sensitive manner, thus increasing the pleasure but also creating a deeper sexual bond.

 

Another reason it is important to understand and control sexual energies is that there is more to sex than just having a good time. According to some Energy therapies, it is thought that there are energy sites throughout the body. These are known as Chakras and they are considered to be like turbines that suck in cosmic energies from the Universal Energy Field. They then transport these energies to the meridians which, in turn, circulate it around the body and into the organs. These Chakras constantly spin at a certain speed. In sexual union, due to arousal, the Chakras spin faster and, at the point of orgasm, they increase

dramatically in speed. As this cycling accelerates, the Chakras draw in more of the Universal Energy Field so, in an orgasm, the whole system is flushed with fresh cosmic energies and all the old energies are dispersed. During orgasm the energy fields of the participants also interact and merge, so the new energies are not only drawn from the UEF, but also from the sexual partner. The conscious mind is not aware of this but it still takes place. There is creative potential inherent in this metaphysical exchange of information. If

the sex is allied to a relationship or other defined goals, the energetic exchange can have a positive, nurturing effect which contributes to bonding and collective growth.

 

I have had many patients who were Yang types with a very high sex drive but this was not matched in their partners. Accordingly, they would find their sexual desire constantly triggered by other people and some followed through and had affairs. Affairs are not considered beneficial from a therapeutic perspective though, because during orgasm your Chakras spin, pathways open up and specific energies are set free to exchange metaphysically with each other. As a result, new information will be stored in your energy field. So, the next time you engage sexually with your partner, you won’t just be exchanging your own stuff, but also be passing on energies that you took on from the affair. This introduces an unknown entity into your relationship and your partner, even if they know nothing of the affair, will experience some level of emotional confusion. The ramifications of this can come between you like an invisible wall and create an environment which defeats the goals of your relationship.

 

It is normal to be attracted to other people whether you have a high sex drive or not. You can be in love with your partner but still constantly experience this kind of attraction. The people that attract you represent what I call freeflow stimulants. Psychologically, you associate the feelings they trigger in you with something promising such as happiness or pleasure but I think it is something much deeper. I believe that we are primarily energetic or spiritual beings who get too easily trapped in material concerns or business, political or family dramas. This takes us away from our spiritual side and the further we move away from it, the more we develop the urge to feel it. From the perspective of Energy medicine, a freeflowing Human Energy Field is the best state a human being can experience. It allows us to glimpse our potential for deep and meaningful spiritual experiences. This is why so many of our actions aim at achieving freeflow. After drugs, orgasm is the perfect way to feel this. When I am in this state of painlessness, of love, of inner peace or happiness, I am aware of my true identity, I feel complete and I feel real. However, to be beneficial, sex requires discipline and control. This includes every aspect of sex from a healthy ejaculation rate right up to being committed to the one partner. Then it can contribute to personal development and a happy, healthy, long and fulfilling life.

[execbulge]

7 loads in 4 hours a couple of days ago. Even my parents label me as a sex maniac cause they used to catch me busting a load regularly.

It's all in the bollocks.

[Guest Guest]

7 loads in 4 hours a couple of days ago. Even my parents label me as a sex maniac cause they used to catch me busting a load regularly.

It's all in the bollocks.

 

are you a porn star?

[GreatMast]

wow, how abt once a day for someone in his early 20s.. is it too much?

[lausanne]

This article makes sense to me. I always feel I need to explode whenever I don't get off for more than a week.

[TheVisitors]

An interesting article I found.

 

COME AGAIN? EJACULATION, AFFAIRS AND YIN AND YANG

by Jost Sauer

 

In Western medicine, sex is not considered an integral part of health, in Traditional Chinese Medicine though, sexual practices are considered to have a huge impact on health by affecting levels of ‘Jing’, a substance which determines your basic constitutional strength and vitality. Jing is supposed be carefully managed but there are lots of things that we do that can contribute to its decline, and consequently an earlier death, and excessive ejaculation in men is one of these.

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It is normal to be attracted to other people whether you have a high sex drive or not. You can be in love with your partner but still constantly experience this kind of attraction. The people that attract you represent what I call freeflow stimulants. Psychologically, you associate the feelings they trigger in you with something promising such as happiness or pleasure but I think it is something much deeper. I believe that we are primarily energetic or spiritual beings who get too easily trapped in material concerns or business, political or family dramas. This takes us away from our spiritual side and the further we move away from it, the more we develop the urge to feel it. From the perspective of Energy medicine, a freeflowing Human Energy Field is the best state a human being can experience. It allows us to glimpse our potential for deep and meaningful spiritual experiences. This is why so many of our actions aim at achieving freeflow. After drugs, orgasm is the perfect way to feel this. When I am in this state of painlessness, of love, of inner peace or happiness, I am aware of my true identity, I feel complete and I feel real. However, to be beneficial, sex requires discipline and control. This includes every aspect of sex from a healthy ejaculation rate right up to being committed to the one partner. Then it can contribute to personal development and a happy, healthy, long and fulfilling life.

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To answer your question, especially when it comes to the part where it says, too much ejaculation...leads to fatigue and lower backache...

 

This is found in the Yellow Emperor's Book of Internal Medicine which I am currently studying.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Huangdi_Neijing

 

 

According to the TCM, the kidney stores the sexual energy - jing - and not in our testicles , as conventionally thought in the Western medicine.

 

The food that we eat, provides nutrients to the kidney to produce Jing , which then produce Qi, the Prana life force energy , which circulates our bodily system in good health

 

The kidneys, and the reproduction organs are rules by the water element.

 

Every time an ejaculation occurs, this drains the Jing energy.

The more you cum the more the Jing is drained thus the less Qi you will have.

 

Since the water element rules the kidney, every ejaculation will drain the "water" element thus the kidneys will be "dried" and drained of Qi.

 

When the Jing and Qi are depleted in the kidneys, the Qi will be drawn from the bone marrow to top up the deficient kidney Qi.

 

Over time, the blood marrow, internally weakened by the lack of its own Qi, will be "brittle", thus this pain is manifested as lower backache.

 

Plus overtime as the water is deficient, excess fire element sets in that causes a bloated feeling in the lower intestines.

Sign of this heatiness is experienced by a bloated stomach, the urge to urinate but cannot seems to urinate

 

Similarly, in women, the irregular menstruation , that cannot purge "old dirty " blood from the body, will lead to "old dirty" blood clogged in the bone marrow.

But for women, this is more severe, because their entire bodily bone  becomes brittle that a slight knock or a bump may break their bones

 

 

One interesting point.

 

Sperm is ying

Ovaries are yang

 

If you look at a Tao Ba Gua diagram of the black and white diagram:

 

 

Male are white with a black yin dot. This black yin dot is the sperm

 

Females are black with a white yang dot. this white dot is the ovaries

 

Thus in the male , this is yin within yang

female is yang within yin. 

 

You need one yang within yin and one yin within yang to procreate anything in this universe.

 

This diagram may interest you

http://www.lieske.com/channels/5e-kidney.htm

 

This is more interesting

 

http://taliamarcheggiani.com/2012/01/17/sex-and-the-kidney/

 

 

Thus, if you can conclude, with inline of the Yellow's Emperor's Book's wisdom, preserving the vitality of the kidney's energy, is one way of anti aging, or if not, slows down the aging process

 

In the Chinese calendar, there are days called 立冬  。

Even a day before this day, due to the changing energy of the cosmic Yin Yang elements, it is advised not be engaged in sexual activities.

 

Ejaculation by the males, will damaged their internal Qi system, quite badly......

Edited June 21, 2013 by G_M

[Jackhammer]

Hi, I have also been practicing taichi for a while. May I know where u practice your taichi, or where your taichi master coaches? Would like to experience the teachings of different masters so as to widen own perceptions and understanding on this profound arts. Can recommend me your master?

[Guest YinYang]

Hi, am not a taichi practitioner just posted the article to share. Honestly I do feel that frequent ejaculation does do damage although the effects are not seen so immediately so we got to practice some self control on this

 

Here is a another article to share

http://www.1vigor.com/article/ejaculation-frequency/

[jayzee]

Thanks a lot for sharing this

[Guest a]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SWE1vXQEBvQ

[Guest 仙人掌]

戒除邪淫

 

老师吃长斋从来不手淫也没有胡来乱搞关系。踊跃转发给人阅读。

1. 手淫是一种严重损伤身体精神的行为。手淫所消费的是「精」，也就是与骨髓、脑髓相通的肾所收藏的人体的奉生之本，造血之源。过度耗精会导致骨髓空洞，脑髓不满，生命提前衰老、夭折，身体的极度虚弱反而是次要的表现。
2. 人体！血气滋养，血气的来源是饮食。没有消耗完的血气会在人体深度睡眠时转化为精，藏于肾中，封藏于骨内，以备不时之需。如果消耗的少，储蓄的多，就是长寿健康的保障；如果消耗的多，储蓄的少，就是衰老短命的前提。手淫与性行为都以精的耗损为表现形式，这种耗损结果的超常积累意味着生存质量的降低与生命历程的提前结束。
3. 手淫不但会损伤身体的动力，而且会损伤情志，令人精神萎靡，意志薄弱，犹豫不决，优柔寡断，暴躁乖戾，多疑恐惧。遇事或躁进，或退缩，缺少耐心与恒心，以及必胜的信心和勇气。这都是精虚不能化气的结果。
4. 手淫还会影响到智力，长期手淫会对记忆力与思维能力产生明显的破坏，学习能力的力不从心与学习成绩的迅速下降是最明显的表现。这是精虚不能化气，气虚不能化神的结果.
5. 手淫的毫无节制与泛滥成灾与西医理论的误导有关，初中的生理卫生教材甚至说适当手淫会有益健康，精只是少量蛋白质与多量水分的混合体，对身体无足轻重。正是这种歪理邪说的肆意误导与教唆，使身心原本幼稚的青少年对手淫行为放松了警惕，敢于尝试，最终成瘾，无法克制，走上了伤精损气耗神的不归路!
6. 手淫行为具有严重的成瘾性，一旦成瘾，很难克制。这是手淫患者明显感到手淫后身体不适却依然能够坚持不懈乐此不疲的原因。
7. 手淫行为通过捷径提取人体储备能源，使人体在突发变故之时无法启动应急措施，造成很多慢性病滋生，久久不愈，与时俱进。
8. 手淫行为提前透支人体生发之气，使人体生育能力极大下降，即使种子尚未生气全失，播种耕种生根发眩—花结果之后也不免枯萎不荣，缺乏生机。这些都是作强之官生气受损，技巧下降的结果。
9. 手淫并非不可克制，只要有坚定的信心与必胜的勇气，心能清净，则肾能安定；神不妄动，则精不妄施。培养向上的情！ ，明于理而通于事，则行随心转，上明下安。
10. 戒除手淫是治疗手淫伤精所造成的种种后果的前提。就像给车胎打气一样，没有补好漏洞就开始打气，过不了多久又会空空如也，这种打气也就毫无积极意义可言。

 

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[Guest Zephz]

Nice article

[Guest Horny Old Man]

Wow, I am in my early 40s and I JO 3-5 time daily. Friends who know it say I siao but it has always been like that for as far as I remember.

I do feel weak (and sore) after Joing 4-5 times within the same day (Come on who will not).

 

Yea, I do get lower backache once a while (I thought it's b'cos of my desk bound job), as for kidney it was okay except 2 times when blood was found in my urine stream and I have a weak bladder (some nights I need to wake up few times to clear my bladder.

 

Hmm...any reccommendation (remedies to consume) to keep the body strong without lowering the JO frquencies by too much.

I tried stopping a few days before, but the max I can go is ~ 2days and when I give up, I JO like 3 times within the hour.

 

Interesting articles, I got to say.

 

JO less less, Live long long

JO more more, Die fast fast

Arrrhhhhh so difficult

 

[snowball]

i only know that after sex cannot go to shower immediately

[JEFFJEFF]

min 1 must jo once a day 

 

this have been happening for many many years

[Guest LONEly NIGht]

Oh my! Blood found in urine is no joke, bettet do a thorough check out bfore too late!

[Guest Horny Old Man]

I did. In fact the blood as discovered for 2 yrs in a row from my company annual checkup. Both years they say the blood is not much but should not be ignore.

 

So send me for more tests (which include keeping my full 24hrs urine, maybe longer I cannot remember). Both years, final results were ok. Maybe a cut in the urine track. Anyway I was wondering if the cut has anything to do with my freq JOing.

 

Let's keep to the topic.

Anyone got any remedies besides cutting down the frequencies?