Guest requiem Posted March 8, 2008 Report Share Posted March 8, 2008 I've nvr really been a bottom but I tried and failed. He had tried to enter me partially but failed fully. Now my anal area feels real itchy. Should I go to the doctor about it ? Its worrying me. Hopefully its just sensitive skin. Advice? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nicefatboy Posted March 8, 2008 Report Share Posted March 8, 2008 I hope u made him wear a condom. One possible reason for the itch could be an allergic reaction to the lubrication used. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taxme7 Posted March 8, 2008 Report Share Posted March 8, 2008 hello guestif u sincerely wanted to seek help, y dun u register as BW member? Be part of the BW family loras long as u wear a condom during intercourse, should be fine la... dun worry too much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DirtyOldMan Posted March 8, 2008 Report Share Posted March 8, 2008 Actually you need not have anal sex in order to make love. For me I don't and many others also don't. In fact many also think that anal sex is dirty and this is different from person to person. If you enjoy anal sex then no choice you just have to go for it. There is alays a risk and if you can choose your partner well and not just peform sex will any Tom Dick and Harry you should be fine - of couse the general recommendation is using condom. You also need to understand how HIV is transmitted - normally through bleedings. If you are allergic to lubricants you can try baby oil which is cheap and safe as baby is using it - the only disadantage is non-water soluble and you have to wash with soap. Good luck young man ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reflection Posted March 8, 2008 Report Share Posted March 8, 2008 (edited) I thought this question about problematic anus has been rasied many times. Medical consultation is still the best. What if you have warts, herpes, etc ?A gay-friendly clinic for you to go : http://www.dsc-sexualhealth.com.sg/ Edited March 8, 2008 by reflection z Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest requiem Posted March 8, 2008 Report Share Posted March 8, 2008 oh yes. He did use lubricant and it could be it or the condom. It was my first time anyway. It can't be any more serious right I hope? Its just itches which i felt instantly. Gosh I'm nvr going to attempt this ever again. I'm only 18 zz. Thanks guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DirtyOldMan Posted March 8, 2008 Report Share Posted March 8, 2008 I've nvr really been a bottom but I tried and failed. He had tried to enter me partially but failed fully. Now my anal area feels real itchy. Should I go to the doctor about it ? Its worrying me. Hopefully its just sensitive skin. Advice?Let me take a look at it to see if you have infection. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest requiem Posted March 8, 2008 Report Share Posted March 8, 2008 That's not funny... I'm dead worried about the itch already..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bb Posted March 8, 2008 Report Share Posted March 8, 2008 That's not funny... I'm dead worried about the itch already.....Just go an see a doctor lah.Don't wait until it developed into something serious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justme9_9 Posted March 8, 2008 Report Share Posted March 8, 2008 It could nothing, it could be something, it could be something in between but I am not qualified to tell you what it is. As people have already advised you, go see a doctor. Doctors have seen everything - from people shoving things up their anus to foreskin tears, both in straight and gay men so there is no need for you to feel shy about the consult. Hopefully what might be the worse thing in this situation is the worry. Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest agony uncle Posted March 8, 2008 Report Share Posted March 8, 2008 Dont need to rush out to see the doctor yet. The itch might just go away. It could well be an allergic reaction, nothing more. But if the itch persists for a few more days, then pls quickly go and get help. Fastest way is to make a visit to the DSC clinic instead of going to your family doctor who will most likely refer you to this or national skin disease clinic anyway. http://dsc-sexualhealth.com.sg/index.phpIn the meantime, do keep the 'infected' area clean and dry. Also, if you have a mirror, you can examine the area for signs of infection. And you do see anything unusual like a boil or something, pls seek help immediately. Take care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skylancer Posted March 8, 2008 Report Share Posted March 8, 2008 I've nvr really been a bottom but I tried and failed. He had tried to enter me partially but failed fully. Now my anal area feels real itchy. Should I go to the doctor about it ? Its worrying me. Hopefully its just sensitive skin. Advice?Hmm..From my view, my advise are as follows:1) If you are into anal sex next time, please practice safe sex. As you might not know is he clean or not.2) As you just mentioned, your anal area feel itchy. That is normal as you don do proper cleaning before and after the anal sex. Please do wash up your anal area with mild soap and water. And dont go find others for fun(you know what i mean)3) If the itchy still don go away around 1-2 days, please go and visit your family doctor. But just tell him that, feel itchy. Don know why like that.(I know it sounds lame but you have to tell him that way.)4) Do not eat heaty stuff at the mean time. It might make it worst.Anyway, gd luck to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buaya Posted March 10, 2008 Report Share Posted March 10, 2008 It could be an infection from a micro tear when you were penetrated... Best way to determine is to see a doctor... Visit me @ http://ibuaya.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AceD Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 I'm purely top and i'm curious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest stbrianud Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 clean up i assume. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 Apparently they leave shit water on tops... At least that what I read from one of the threads here. GoodBoyRan 1 Â Â Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 I'm purely top and i'm curious.You prepared to become bottom? http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlowWindBlow Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 Become one and find out for urself andykan 1 JUSTAMUSICALBOY ~ singwithme! Â SUPPORT PINK DOT AND LIKE! https://www.facebook.com/pinkdotsg/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tashi boy Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 Haha! Are U a " New Top " ?? :thumb: May the 0dds. . . Be... Ever In your Favor ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 It's not easy being a bottom You need to watch your diet, don't eat anything that make you have the run. And you have to (forgive my language) shit on the day you want to do it so when top finger you, there won't be any "extra things" inside. Plus it sorta loosen your hole in a way so top don't have to finger so much.And before you go you need to have a throughout clean up/shower, especially the anal area. And you have to apply deodorant and so on to make you smell better so the top will feel better without having to smell your odor. You might also want have enough sleep on the day before as sometimes anal sex can be intense and tiring.During sex, bottom have to make their top feel comfortable and at ease so they can get hard. I've realize most top goes soft easily, thus do things that will make the top go hard again. Example can be kissing, licking the nipple, handjob, blowjob and so on. It is also the responsibility of the bottom to tell the top if he is feeling uncomfortable or not as some bottom need some loosing if not being penetrated can cause a lot of pain if not loosen properly.Having sex requires a lot of preparation and it can be tiring at times. Hope this helps. tashi boy 1 https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tashi boy Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 MerlinKun. . . I guess you are a pure btm yourself?? Hahaha...My partners don't usually tell me all these stuffs de ... Haha... And they seemed to be "Every Ready for Sex" to me... ! I think they do it on their own without telling me much... And I also can't give much advice for btms... haha... But I learnt something that. . . If the Btm feels shiok during intercourse, they will have an erection during sex, and it means that the Top is good or something... Haha!And yes, I do agree with MerlinKun... ! Tops out there... Its important for you to "last" in bed, and maintain the erection... Else the Btm will feel upset de... Haha.... And for btms, it also depends on how they arouse their tops... Some of them are damn skilled at it... Like when U are not realli in the mood for sex, they can arouse you and make you damn horny also... But if the chemistry with the btm is not there, its very hard to have a good time in bed AceD 1 :thumb: May the 0dds. . . Be... Ever In your Favor ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest top Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 It's not easy being a bottom You need to watch your diet, don't eat anything that make you have the run. And you have to (forgive my language) shit on the day you want to do it so when top finger you, there won't be any "extra things" inside. Plus it sorta loosen your hole in a way so top don't have to finger so much.And before you go you need to have a throughout clean up/shower, especially the anal area. And you have to apply deodorant and so on to make you smell better so the top will feel better without having to smell your odor.You might also want have enough sleep on the day before as sometimes anal sex can be intense and tiring.During sex, bottom have to make their top feel comfortable and at ease so they can get hard. I've realize most top goes soft easily, thus do things that will make the top go hard again. Example can be kissing, licking the nipple, handjob, blowjob and so on. It is also the responsibility of the bottom to tell the top if he is feeling uncomfortable or not as some bottom need some loosing if not being penetrated can cause a lot of pain if not loosen properly.Having sex requires a lot of preparation and it can be tiring at times. Hope this helps.wow so much preparation. u must be a considerate btm, u deserve a top that respects u. most tops worry about not being able to 'perform' or not being able to satisfy the btm. u need to relax during sex to enjoy and perform. gd sex is when both parties accommodate and enjoy the sex as much as possible and not just about one party. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 And yes I am a pure bottom. https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ongwsjackson Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 (edited) I'm quite surprised no one mentioned douching.http://youtu.be/20Xd6QOajuo "And also dude in the video you fill your ass with 3 douche loads of water and can still wash your face and finish showering before you empty? That's some good ass muscles." Edited January 1, 2016 by jacksonongws Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boi1230 Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 I'm quite surprised no one mentioned douching.[media=] I believe Merlin kun have mention it in description. When u wash yr ass, of cos the cleanest way is to douch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ongwsjackson Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 (edited) I'm just being explicit, for the poorly read tops All bottoms should know ah! Edited January 1, 2016 by jacksonongws Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 9, 2012 Report Share Posted December 9, 2012 Question: What Do Bottoms Do Before They Get Penetrated?Answer: They screamed to act tight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 Question: What Do Bottoms Do Before They Get Penetrated?Answer: They screamed to act tight.LOL...In Chinese, we call such bottoms "装纯" (act pure). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panadol Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 (edited) Question: What Do Bottoms Do Before They Get Penetrated?Answer: They screamed to act tight.-delete- Edited February 2, 2013 by Panadol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
outernet Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 How many of u btms here have difficultly passing motion the next day after being banged hard? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AceD Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 Thanks alot^^^^, so thats why my partner has been so worried about his arse before getting banged. xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tashi boy Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 And yes I am a pure bottom. Merlinkun,Ask U, if any case the btm doesn't have a hard on during sex, issit that he is not enjoying it ?? :thumb: May the 0dds. . . Be... Ever In your Favor ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 1. Vegetarian diet for two days2. Drinking plenty of water3. Mental preparation; clearing the mind of anxiety4. Bowel purification before the act5. Put on a bathrobe/towel6. Enter the room with the top in it7. Take off my bathrobe/towel with my back facing the top8. Turn my head slowly, with that soft gaze8 Steps. I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tashi boy Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 1. Vegetarian diet for two days2. Drinking plenty of water3. Mental preparation; clearing the mind of anxiety4. Bowel purification before the act5. Put on a bathrobe/towel6. Enter the room with the top in it7. Take off my bathrobe/towel with my back facing the top8. Turn my head slowly, with that soft gaze8 Steps. Hey DarkFlame,Do you always do this to your Tops ?!?! :thumb: May the 0dds. . . Be... Ever In your Favor ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 How many of u btms here have difficultly passing motion the next day after being banged hard?That could be because the waste in your body changed from skinny-long cylinder shape to fat-short cylinder shape, so naturally it is harder to pass motion.Merlinkun,Ask U, if any case the btm doesn't have a hard on during sex, issit that he is not enjoying it ??I am not too sure as I am always hard on during sex lol. But for me personally if I can't get hard, it means the top is really terrible. Do note it is different for different people. https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tashi boy Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 MerlinKun,Whao! U must be enjoying your sex a lot ! hahaha... But it seems like, for sex, the btm has a lot of preparation works to do, while the Top do not really need to prepare ! LoL ! :thumb: May the 0dds. . . Be... Ever In your Favor ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tkong Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 a lesson to go, TQ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 10, 2012 Report Share Posted December 10, 2012 1. Vegetarian diet for two days2. Drinking plenty of water3. Mental preparation; clearing the mind of anxiety4. Bowel purification before the act5. Put on a bathrobe/towel6. Enter the room with the top in it7. Take off my bathrobe/towel with my back facing the top8. Turn my head slowly, with that soft gaze8 Steps. So you have to be booked at least 3 days in advance in order to make this preparation.How about impromptu sex? You give excuse? such as: oh not convenient, I got L.S. today ^_^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 Hey DarkFlame, Do you always do this to your Tops ?!?! Maybe I do..?? So you have to be booked at least 3 days in advance in order to make this preparation. How about impromptu sex? You give excuse? such as: oh not convenient, I got L.S. today ^_^ Yeah, be like a high class prostitute I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrymore84 Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 (edited) use water hose or enema, eat more fiber or senna/mild laxatives if you have to, and let it pass smoothly. unless you're planning a kinky sex aka <<Don't Feed The Troll>> sex nothing is more easier than using this Edited December 11, 2012 by berrymore84 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlinkun Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 MerlinKun,Whao! U must be enjoying your sex a lot ! hahaha... But it seems like, for sex, the btm has a lot of preparation works to do, while the Top do not really need to prepare ! LoL ! lol no. Just sharing what I know hahahaha.But if the top is good, all the hard work was not without waste. https://merlinsfolio.wordpress.com/ https://medium.com/@merlincheng "On the Internet, no one knows you are a cat." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berrymore84 Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 (edited) So you have to be booked at least 3 days in advance in order to make this preparation.How about impromptu sex? You give excuse? such as: oh not convenient, I got L.S. today ^_^not if you're using laxative. eg tonight i take 2 senna tablets + psyllium husk tomorrow morning i can go toilet already, passing soft and bulky stools has never been easy like this.imo there's no such thing as impromptu anal sex, even male and female pxxn stars have to do "preparation" before the shooting starts... Edited December 11, 2012 by berrymore84 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tashi boy Posted December 11, 2012 Report Share Posted December 11, 2012 lol no. Just sharing what I know hahahaha.But if the top is good, all the hard work was not without waste. Haha...Yeah! I love it when Btms enjoy the sex... Feels a sense of satisfaction / achievement ! :thumb: May the 0dds. . . Be... Ever In your Favor ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phoenix88 Posted October 18, 2013 Report Share Posted October 18, 2013 I tried bottoming, and it's quite painful. Is anal sex supposed to feel like that? Does it hurt only the first few times and get better after more tries? What is it supposed to feel like? How to be a bottom? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted October 18, 2013 Report Share Posted October 18, 2013 Please make use of the search function to search for the topic you want to know before posting. The following are previous discussion on Anal Sex. First Time Experiencing Sex (Jo, Oral, Anal) (Compiled) Bottom : Clean House = How To Prepare Your Ass For Fun (Compiled) Anal Bleeding After Sex Anal Sex Side Effects I Can'T Enjoy Anal Sex Painful Anal Sex What Is Safe Sex Discussion (compiled) http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest deadfish Posted December 4, 2014 Report Share Posted December 4, 2014 How do you bottom without being like a dead fish? Many a times I do not know what to do when my bf fucks me. I will just lay there while he enter me. I do not know how else to satisfy him. Is it enough for a top? I am quite shy when it comes to sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted December 4, 2014 Report Share Posted December 4, 2014 1. Talk to your bf about what he wantsDoes he prefers you to be a dead fish or does he prefers you to be a slut-in-bed? 2. Ask yourself - what you wantDo you prefers to be a dead fish or you rather be a slut-in-bed who can pleasure your bf? 3. Find the middle ground so both gets what they want. http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mate69 Posted December 4, 2014 Report Share Posted December 4, 2014 How do you bottom without being like a dead fish? Many a times I do not know what to do when my bf fucks me. I will just lay there while he enter me. I do not know how else to satisfy him. Is it enough for a top? I am quite shy when it comes to sex.  You must not be shy when having sex. After all, it's all about satisfying each other's needs and desires. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tashi boy Posted December 4, 2014 Report Share Posted December 4, 2014 i think a good rule of thumb would be to reciprocate the favour. if he's doing his best to pleasure you, then you do the same back. like play with his nipples as he is entering you, if you're doing missionary. or moan or push your butt backwards if you're doing doggy. the little things that might turn him on. Â Yeah you are damn right! I super love it when my btm talks dirty to me when I F him... and he shows signs of being high by caressing me and all... makes me feel good... hahaha :thumb: May the 0dds. . . Be... Ever In your Favor ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 4, 2014 Report Share Posted December 4, 2014 No fixed way of doing it. Different folks, different strokes. Best thing to do is to communicate with your partner and find a middle-ground. Be considerate and not selfish.Don't feel pressurised to fake anything. Be true to yourself and enjoy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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